Basically. The whole il clan, especially my sil who my mil swears was a friend while she was lying to my husband, trying to cause problems between us, and expecting him to choose her over me (my mil expected him to choose all of them over me and the kids too who they went out of their way to hurt) that pretended to be, but never were. They exclude us in every way, but claim to love us and respect us so much. If this is love, I'll pass. They only want us and my husband when we do what they want.